空中英语教室:20110226 MP3在线课程 Good Parenting Skills Can Change the World

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That's not to say they don't feel upset, stressed out or depressed at times. But, those who've been nurtured have the resiliency to bounce back from most problems. It's tough to sim ulate this kind of nurturing once you're grown. But it can be done.

Gary Smalley, the nationally known relationship expert and author, believes that adults can form "small groups" to kind of "parent" each other. This can be a spiritually based group, or a small group can be caring friends who desire to open up about their lives. They help each other grow and heal and vow to "be there" for each other.

"I'm 65 now," says a woman we'll call Betty. "My parents are gone and my children are scattered around the country. I was depressed for three years before I decided to form a small group. We kind of parent each other."

Betty continues, "We meet twice a month to share problems and help each other figure out what to do. We simply encourage each other in a thousand ways."

但这并不代表这些人不会偶尔感到心烦、紧张或沮丧。然而,获得关爱的人有迅速复原的能力,可以度过大部分难关。一旦长大成人,再要模拟这种关爱并不容易。不过,还是可以办到。

全国知名人际关系专家与作家盖瑞·史摩利认为,成人可以组成「小团体」,来「养育」彼此。可以是以灵修为主的团体,也可以是一小群彼此关心的朋友,大家渴望对自己的生命开诚布公。这些人互助成长、疗伤止痛,也誓言彼此有需要时「不会缺席」。

「我现在六十五岁了,」我们暂且称为贝蒂的妇人说, 「我父母已过世,子女也散居国内各地。我忧郁了三年,才决定组一个小团体。大家都算是在养育彼此。」

贝蒂继续说道:「我们每个月聚会二次,分享问题,帮彼此想出解决方法。我们就是用各种不同的方法互相鼓励而已。」

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