空中英语教室:20110225 MP3在线课程 Good Parenting Skills Can Change the World

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"I see patients in my counseling office who've never had true nurturing from anyone," says a psychologist we'll call Gerald. "They've never known the inner peace of feeling loved and cared for."

Gerald says that children under the age of six cannot receive too much love and attention. He adds that discipline is part of that package, but he emphasizes that small children really need this kind of devotion. "Small children who've been hugged, kissed and loved on will grow up to be mentally stable adults," says Gerald.

He goes on to say that hungering for parenting can, for example, get teenage girls into trouble.If the father figure isn't there, a teenage girl will look for love in all the wrong places, Geraldemphasizes.

"People in good marriages try hard to nurture each other," says Gerald. "But, if you're married to someone who never got tenderness and hugs, they don't feel comfortable giving that nurturing to you."

Adults who've lived with kindness and respect coming from their parents are the luckiest people on earth.

我们暂且称之为杰若的心理医生表示,「我在谘商室遇过从来没有受到真心关爱的病人,」「他们从来没有体验过有人疼爱、有人关心所带来的内在平静。」

杰若表示,六岁以下的儿童需要关爱与注意,再多也不嫌多。他也补充说,管教也是其中一部份,但强调幼童特别需要这种关爱。「常常被拥抱、亲吻与关爱的幼童,长大成人后的心理状况会比较稳定。」杰若说。

他继续举例说明,渴求父母关爱可能会让青少女发生问题。他强调,若没有父执辈在左右,青少女会在不适当的地方寻求关爱。

「婚姻健全的人会努力相亲相爱,」杰若表示, 「但要是你的另一半,从小没有受到温柔对待或拥抱,那么要对你付出关爱,就会觉得很不自在。」

在父母的慈爱与尊重下长大成人,是世上最幸运的人。

 

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